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Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Family and what that really means

Isn't it amazon how family says they have your best interest at heart, when there the main ones destroying your life? Just makes me so aggravated how two faced people can be, including family. I mean really, the "blood is thicker than water" statement basically is just words. No matter where you come from, who you are and how long you been here, everyone knows that loyalty is ONLY true when it's comforted by the ones who truly mean it. Who honestly love. Who respectfully concern there life with yours.

People can say and do a million things, but in reality, actions speak louder then words. It doesn't matter who you are, know your boundaries, evaluate your life and honestly ask if you are making the right choices.  Most familiarize them selves with selfishness and tend to acknowledge life as they see it because that's what they were taught, or how they were raised. 

People, don't blame the people that guided you in this life rather they did it right or wrong, blame yourself for not breaking the cycle. No matter the damage, corruption, or news feed, build your own boundaries, your own life, your own goals. It's not gonna get handed to you on a silver platter because of the way destiny has made its routes in your life. We have challenges and heart aches for a reason, to build our tolerance, to raise our motivations and most of all, to concur what many feel we wouldn't.

Once you have found your foundation, you can build from it. Don't let others destroy your motivation by bringing you down. You can be your own best-friend.



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1 comment:

  1. I should not be writing this comment.
    It is the first one, after reading most of your blogs.
    I think I found a strong undercurrent in you being, in some aspects similar to the one I feel in myself, capable to take anything adrift if not checked in time, so I should not write this opinion as the first contact... but, is this a first contact?

    The picture you display at the end of the post is cute, but it is only syrup and sweet words.

    Following a bit what I sustain in a post of mine; with a lot of luck what the picture said can be Love, or even love, stretching a little the truth, but it never is LOVE.

    Because LOVE is to give with no reward, is to suffer just because we want the best to the 'BeLOVED', just disintegrate, crumble, piece by piece for the welfare of those LOVED.

    So it is to be alone, forever in time, only afterwards may, or may not exist something as a satisfying enclosing of each one of us together with our identity, into an absolute that will claim the reality of "not feeling alone" any more.

    Unfortunately, there is no way to get any proof of what I state in the previous paragraph, so we must decide if it is worth to take the risk or not.

    I like your blogs very much, your posts make me stir the molasses I have instead of a brain.

    Thank you!

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