Many are tired of the same oh life isn't fair syndrome. Come on people, Stop thinking about do's and don'ts and pick yourself up cause in the end, who will? Give yourself more credit than you do. Pat yourself on the back every time you have to wake up in the mornings and head out to work even when you don't feel like it. Congratulate yourself on surviving heart ache. Forgive those that have hurt you and move on. Drink that fresh brew of coffee to hype yourself up for the day to come as it unfolds.

Relax your mind before heading out that door and realize how grateful you should be to have a job and how many are without. In this economy many are struggling to survive. Unemployment clients are loosing more of there earnings than working a regular 9-5pm job. 

Relationships are on the rocks cause they lack communication issues. Appreciate having that special someone next to you instead of being alone. Life shouldn't be at a halt because you can't figure out what to do next.

Constantly be forgiving even if you feel that someone isn't worth it. You can't judge anyone cause at the end of the day, are you perfect?

Why are you so depressed? What is making you think you are cursed because you have responsibilities in life? Many make the mistake of confusing life challenges with curses. I believe it is a blessing to have a job. To work and support yourself as we'll as your family if you have been blessed with one. Snap out of the pitty party mode and stand up and say "I am a woman/man of responsibility's." In time you will receive great blessings from which you deserve for your hard work.

Life is not easy nor is it motivating at times. But love yourself enough to breathe steady when life hits you the hardest. Find ways to uplift your spirit. Be your best-friend. 

For ways and tips to help become your own best-friend and over come fears in life, feel free to comment or write to me personally: The Columnist Angel

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